I have undone a knot! My problem is that i like people.. and because i'm mostly around people i like my defenses are weak.. i don't really need them. So when i come across B&Bs (bastards and bitches) i'm left bleeding.
Today i spent some time with people i dislike and as each minute passed by i could observe how my behavior was more inline with people who have good defenses rather than being typically me.
So is the solution to my problem to hang out with more people i dislike?
Dilemma -
More time with people i like = me happy but my defenses are weak
More time with people i dislike = me depressed but my defenses are strong
Today i spent some time with people i dislike and as each minute passed by i could observe how my behavior was more inline with people who have good defenses rather than being typically me.
So is the solution to my problem to hang out with more people i dislike?
Dilemma -
More time with people i like = me happy but my defenses are weak
More time with people i dislike = me depressed but my defenses are strong
